Why people commit suicide and what to do not committing suicide
It was very stressful situation for me, when I heard one girl
committed suicide in my flat.
May be she was 18 to 20 years old. That time I was thinking
about my family. Please teens don’t do it. It may be very stressful time for you.
But think once about your parent, how they will live without you? Those who are
doing hard duty for you, you also have some duty for them. Don’t ignore them.
If it is very odd situation for you, you are overloaded with stress, share with
your parent. Parent can be your best friend. If you do a great mistake then
also share with your parent. If you have a good friend share with him or her.
But better share with your parent. Nobody can be like your parent.
Life
is given to each person for a purpose, God's purpose. We are here on earth to
fulfill that purpose. Are we free to decide when our purpose is finished and we
should die? No! This is known only to God. If we take or attempt to take our
own life (suicide) we are trying to perform a function that belongs to God.
Why people commit suicide and what to do not committing suicide
Before a baby is born everything about that baby, his growth, life, livelihood, place of birth, time and place of death, as well as everything else about him, are all known ONLY TO GOD. For as long as we live in this world we are being tested. When we die, it is not the end, but the beginning of a new life. We will open our eyes in a world according to the deeds we did in this life and the Mercy of God. This new life will not be temporary. Here, we find ourselves in different situations and we try our best to rise to the occasion and to pass the test with the help of God.
Why people commit suicide and what to do not committing suicide
Before a baby is born everything about that baby, his growth, life, livelihood, place of birth, time and place of death, as well as everything else about him, are all known ONLY TO GOD. For as long as we live in this world we are being tested. When we die, it is not the end, but the beginning of a new life. We will open our eyes in a world according to the deeds we did in this life and the Mercy of God. This new life will not be temporary. Here, we find ourselves in different situations and we try our best to rise to the occasion and to pass the test with the help of God.
Why
people attempt for a suicide n my advice:
1.
Dissolved in depression: Please don’t
dissolve in depression, try to avoid it. It’s an invisible killer.
2.
Loss of hope: Don’t be hopeless anytime. May be you
don’t know the better thing awaiting you.
3.
Frustration: Don’t be frustrated. Keep believe on
God.
4.
Psychosis: Go for treatment, or take your friend to
a doctor and stay beside him or her in his/her hard time.
5.
Lifeless things taking away lives:
Don’t take drugs. When drugs will kill you, you don’t know.
6.
Burdened with past regrets: Don’t be
burdened with past regrets. Forgive people, those who are harming you.
7.
Society sucks: Sometimes society can be a great fear
for you. What the society will think about you. This kind of negative thinking
might push you for committing a suicide. So try to be good. Don’t do anything
like society point out you. But if anything happen like this, let time go. Be
patience. Time will say what to do.
8.
When there is heart break, people try to break their ties with life: Why dear, Can’t you be selfish that time? If anyone
hurts you. Try to forget him or her. If he or she can do cheat with you, why
don’t you. Or do social work try to keep your mind fresh.
9.
Jobless life: of course it’s very hard time for
anyone. But there is not only one way, there are hundreds way to get job .So be
hopeful.
What Does Islam Say On
Suicide & Its Punishment?
We should say Alhamdulillah (gratefulness to God) for
whatever situation we are confronted with. If we think it is a bad situation,
it could have been worse. If we think it is a good situation, it is still a
test for us. Everything is from God and we should praise Him often. Thanking
Him is one way to praise Him—Alhamdulillah
Why people commit suicide and what to do not committing suicide
{Nor
kill nor destroy yourselves, for surely God has been to you Most Merciful.} (An-Nisaa' 4:29)
The Prophet (peace be upon him)
said, "…whoever commits suicide with a piece of
iron will be punished with the same piece of iron in the Hellfire." (Bukhari)
Abu Hurairah (may God be pleased with him) narrated:
The Prophet (peace be upon him) said, "He who commits suicide by throttling shall keep on throttling himself in the Hellfire (forever) and he who commits suicide by stabbing himself shall keep on stabbing himself in the Hellfire." (Bukhari)
Jundab (may God be pleased with him) narrated:
The Prophet (peace be upon him) said, "A man was inflicted with wounds and he committed suicide, and so Allah said: My slave has caused death on himself hurriedly, so I forbid Paradise for him." (Bukhari)
Abu Hurairah (may God be pleased with him) narrated:
The Prophet (peace be upon him) said, "He who commits suicide by throttling shall keep on throttling himself in the Hellfire (forever) and he who commits suicide by stabbing himself shall keep on stabbing himself in the Hellfire." (Bukhari)
Jundab (may God be pleased with him) narrated:
The Prophet (peace be upon him) said, "A man was inflicted with wounds and he committed suicide, and so Allah said: My slave has caused death on himself hurriedly, so I forbid Paradise for him." (Bukhari)
